Thanks WDID.

So what am I supposed to do if she's looking at me for the reasons you said? If I touch her or try to give her a hug, it's like she doesn't want me touching her. Like a week ago. We were at the wedding and she kept moving her chair closer to me and when I put my arm around her she moved in closer. But when we left the wedding and were in the car, I put my hand on her leg and she pushed it away and slept on the couch in the hotel room that night.

A couple nights ago, I walked up behind her while she was at the stove and started rubbing her shoulders and it was like she couldn't wait for me to get my hands off her.

If it's the other suggestion, that's good. Guess we'll just have to see.

Yesterday was just weird. Morning was ok. Talked a little more than normal before I left for work. I was in a long meeting that didn't end until later in the afternoon. I sent her an IM to see if she had any plans for dinner as S16 had asked me what we were having and that started probably a half hour IM conversation. Laughing, talking, etc.

I got home before her and when she got home, I said "hi" and she didn't say anything. Just headed to the kitchen to fix S16 his dinner. I went out there and tried to talk to her about her day and she was giving me one word answers so I thought "F it" and went to the family room and started reading a book. She came in a bit later, sat down and ate and watched the news. S16 came down and bless his heart, sat down and kept telling W how much he loved her etc. Caught her looking at me a number of times again while she was laughing with S16. But she really didn't talk to me much. So about 8:00, she turned on American Idol and I said "I'm going upstairs to watch T.V." She said "ok".

So this morning she was very talkative and shortly after I got to work she started sending me emails and IM's like crazy. And it's been that way most of the day. So WTF?

Who knows what's going on in her head? I'm just going with the flow. If she wants to talk, I do, if she's in a mood, I leave her alone.

Thanks for the post.


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.