I agree giving yourself a break is the best thing. I wanted to say, stop worrying what everything means. My H does that and I did it. In one of our recent brief talks, I finally told him where I am right now which is, not worrying about the future. I did that way to much and sort of feel like I missed a lot of the present. So now my biggest goal is to have nice days. We too don't plan too far in advance, minus the karate stuff cuz we have to deal with that (reminds me need to make hotel reservations). Yes I still believe if there if a physical attraction anything is possible. So just do your best to GAL and keep PMA. It's important.


If you focus on the past, you ruin the future. You can only live for today.