Yo stillloveshim , if you were my wife ( thank God your not ) , what would make you want to turn things around ?
What? You don't want to be married to me???? That's messed up Man! Just kidding. I think I know what you mean.
I have to believe your wife is a good mother no matter what's happened. I haven't read anything from you to indicate otherwise. I think what this is doing to the kids weighs on her. If it doesn't, she's not human.
I think if given some time and some hard proof from my husband that he was sincere in wanting to save it, I would want too. If she believes she has to spend the rest of her life with the old you, the one who didn't care she was unhappy, then of course she wants to bolt. But if you could bring back parts of the old you, the one she fell in love with and maybe mixed with some new exciting you that she can spend some time getting know, that could do it. It maybe time for a grand gesture. Tell her you will drop the charges if she signs off on stopping the divorce.
