NO WAY should you have to tell your kids that you buy into the D. I'm not saying blame it all on your W but it's HER decision, I'd try and talk to the C and see what you can come up with.

Me:40
W: 39
T: 17 years
M: 15 years
S-9
D-6
D final 11/10/2009

"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."