It's Not Like on T.V.

[AnotherNightmare]

If this is not acceptable to you, then tell her that. How old are your kids?

In any case, I would avoid fighting in front of the kids (I am sure you are not planning on doing that), so talk to her about what you are/she is going to say before you talk to the kids. Do not accept anything you are not comfortable with.

I gotta run, but there were some threads about that topic in another subforum. I will try to find them when I am back later this afternoon.