Seperated But Living Together

[2gthrButApart]

2tghr, I wanted to answer your question from my thread........

I can't speak for your H, I can only speak for me. There were numerous times that I began to experience feelings again for my H. Only when he continued (time & time again) behavior that was damaging to our relationship, did my love die completely.

SC, thank you for finding me to reply.

I know what you mean, b/c the other day, on the subway, my H put his Ipod on full blast ( he was a bit depressed and stressed), and I asked hiw why did he put it on so loud, but I guess I asked in a "motherly' fashion, and he got REALLY offended. Later that day, on his IM away msg, it read...It's always the same thing, any way you look at it....Now that you made that comment, I see what he meant. I never knew men were as sensitive as we are, but with his depression comes extreme sensitivity, and a really great memory when it comes to things I say. Maybe not physical activities, or stories, but if I say soemthing that insults him or hurts him, he does NOT forget it. So I'm being extra careful now.
Since we are getting along so well, and he is still physically into me, and playing and joking, I think I may have a slim chance that his love hasn't completely dide yet.

What's your opinion? Could it be a front, to not "hurt me" more, or b/c he feels pity that he hurt me by wanting a divorce?