My W had LASIC this morning - a good thing in general. I think that if she no longer has to deal with contacts and the associated trauma, etc then she will be happier as a whole. I know it also goes along with the whole sort of MLC she has been going through (wanting to be younger, wanting less responsibility, focusing a lot more on her looks, looking for a new R, etc) but it will be good for her in the long run.

So now I am at home (not unusual since I work from home) and taking care of her while she sleeps and recovers. I think I'm going to have to take of for a while (maybe go work from the library or something) so that I am not staying here and hovering.

I need to go through "No More Mr. Nice Guy" again - and this time actually do the writing exercises that it requests.


Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2
M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08
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