I just don't know anymore. Looking up at that mountain....
W has this idea that we're going to tell the kids about D together and say that Mom and Dad have just decided they can't be married to each other any more.
But that's not true. So what's my move? I'm willing to be in the room when she tells them, but the idea that she would represent ME as a WILLING partner in this decision infuriates me.
"You've got to be mature about this and think about the kids."
I'm sorry, "think about the kids"??? By your own actions you're putting yourself above the kids. You said it plain as day in MC. So why is that I am supposed to subordinate myself for the good of the kids?
