Agreed with Pearl..just sit tight and see what happens. Could be a few reasons why 1) she is confused and reconsidering 2)being civil and nice is easier for her and makes her feel like this is all "ok" 3)she is buying time because she doesn't have her ducks lined up or maybe something completely different. I wouldn't ask her anything right away. Just wait and see, but keep up your PMA.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!