Jeff my "now xh" said the same thing recently to me about cheating. He said, "I didnt cheat on you, we were seperated.", "I left you before I cheated"....hmmmmm, well we were married you DORK!
Crazyiness I tell ya.
I am right there with ya trying to hold on, even though he divorced me almost immediately. I am praying to get the "man I married" back.