Wow Trusting. That is a real break through. Sounds like my h spewing a few weeks back. You did good. Just listen and validate.

I wouldn't bring up anything with him. I think Peace is right, they know inside, just won't admit.

So that is the convo he wanted to have with you, but sounds like he decided to do it over the phone.

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"