i don't think now is the time to purchase a car, especially on ethat you could barely afford. Your W sounds an awful lot like my ex when it comes to buying things they can not afford. You know whatth eright thing to do is lan...don't ley her bully you into buying a "status symbol". I am happy that you threatened to not speak to her for a week.....LOL. I don't know Lan it seems to me that the selfish bug is still running rampant in our wives. I hope you continue to be able to handle it the way you have.