Major update on my sitch...

Ex called me last night.

We talked for 2 hours.

I maybe said 20 words the whole time.

He talked about how bad his life was.

It was pretty pathetic.

About 5 of the 120 minutes he talked he had moments of what we would call spewing/blaming me.

The rest was about what financial ruin he was in.

He told me he will have to take me back to court to get the child support and maintenance readjusted.

I don't know if this will happen or not.

My father thinks he is just trying to pull me back in his drama.

Not sure what to think.

He is maxed out.

He blames all his financial problems on the economy.

None on his spending, womanizing, going on 14 trips, club memberships, etc.....

I did not bring that up.

Should I?

I sympathised

empathized,

and told him how sorry I felt for him.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11