About 5 of the 120 minutes he talked he had moments of what we would call spewing/blaming me.
The rest was about what financial ruin he was in.
He told me he will have to take me back to court to get the child support and maintenance readjusted.
I don't know if this will happen or not.
My father thinks he is just trying to pull me back in his drama.
Not sure what to think.
He is maxed out.
He blames all his financial problems on the economy.
None on his spending, womanizing, going on 14 trips, club memberships, etc.....
I did not bring that up.
Should I?
I sympathised
empathized,
and told him how sorry I felt for him.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11