Great Kev, that sounds good. Getting a plan in place will put you in more control of the situation. Also, it focuses your energies and make this mess a bit easier to deal with. The pros are great.
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09