My first step out of Newcomers

[PositivelyMommy]

It sounds like your family is not getting the hint. Maybe you need to be even more solid in your plans and actually invite them around on specific nights, specific times. Maybe they can bring their dinner and you can make your own dinner and just have a little potluck at home. That's always fun and people will react better if you invite them. Otherwise, they don't want to intrude.

I am an optimist so I think people really want to help you out of loneliness and be there for you. You just need to make solid plans instead of open invitations.