Yes I suggested counselling, found a solution focused, pro-marriage counselor to go to and she went with me about 4 times before calling it quits. Basically told the counselor to her face that she didn't know what she was talking about and was clueless. I have continued to go.
I have seen a L but that was some time ago. Realistically she is not in a position to be making any demands, since it she is the one who has committed adultery. I will be fair because that's only right, but I won't agree to something that is not fair to me.
Only communication I have received from her since she left for St Louis yesterday was on short text message telling me she had arrived. Which is sad but fine. She returns home in a couple of days and I suspect I won't hear from her the entire time.
