No don't apologize, you really did nothing wrong. Just show her you can let it go fast, bounce back, don't hold onto it. If she brings it up, listen and validate as you have been doing.
She read DR huh? Probably not for the best at this stage, but maybe some of it will sink in. Imperative she doesn't snoop and find your threads here. Never leave it up, and clear your browser cache each session!
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A