2tghr, I wanted to answer your question from my thread........

I can't speak for your H, I can only speak for me. There were numerous times that I began to experience feelings again for my H. Only when he continued (time & time again) behavior that was damaging to our relationship, did my love die completely.


M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months
4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10
I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.