I have learned tonight that they will probably NOT just come out and say so. Details on my thread, but apparently xBF did stop contact with OW at some point but never told me. Of course he started up again without telling me that either.

I think you're right to wait and see. If this behavior becomes a pattern then you can ask what's going on. But until then it's just a random occurrence and should be put on the shelf with all the other behaviors your W has exhibited in the past.

(((JD))) You're doing really great.

Last edited by pearlharbr; 03/04/09 06:34 AM.
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