I see the "surprise/deceit" I felt when I went upstairs to find that she moved into the spare bedroom really shook me up
I see the compassionate thing would have been to say "I see you are really hurting/struggling and need some space" and then just give it to her
Now the big question I have is do I appologize to her in the morning and say that to her in the morning?
Thanks for the 2x4's and for not giving up on me
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13