Thanks for the quick reply

I see the "surprise/deceit" I felt when I went upstairs to find that she moved into the spare bedroom really shook me up

I see the compassionate thing would have been to say "I see you are really hurting/struggling and need some space" and then just give it to her

Now the big question I have is do I appologize to her in the morning and say that to her in the morning?

Thanks for the 2x4's and for not giving up on me


Me 41
WAW 36
S 3&7
M 10 yrs
W files D 1/9/09
W moves out 4/18
Lost job 6/15
New job 7/27
Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!)
Confronted 8/11
Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11
Lost Job 11/13