Dr L, Aud, Matilda, Naej, Jak, Thank you for the kindness. I had tears in my eyes reading Matilda's three lines.
I got a long email from my W today. There was nothing constructive in it. It was more of how unhappy she is with an emphasis on the intimacy and housecleaning.
She's asking for space, and is considering renting an apartment so she could spend the weeknights there.
I'm going to keep my social calendar busy this month, and will not pursue my W. I've put away my marital self-help books and am going to focus on my happiness, rather than working on the R.
I was reading on a thread in the Divorced, But Not Done forum that until the WAS is willing to work on the M, reconciliation will not occur. This is a critical missing ingredient in my situation.
She's going to have to work her way out of this. She's going to have to find FT work to support herself, or work on the M.
CL
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
