Thanks folks! Last night STBX took the girls and I to an East Indian restaurant for dinner to celebrate and afterwards we returned to her place for cake and presents. STBX presented me with a gift box of all our family pictures duplicated and organized chronologically. Each group of pictures had a little paper band wrapped around it and she'd written when the pictures were taken and how old the kids were. We had at least 8 large albums of pictures. It was a very nice gift on her part and she obviously put a lot of effort into it. So now that she's been nice to me she'll have to find some way to rip a strip off me! Hmm, I wonder what it will be? Actually, she did call later in the evening and asked me why I was allowing our D to do her homework in front of the TV. I guess I just lost my head for an evening! Well anyway, we did have a really nice family time and that's what really counts, isn't it.