Good insight, and good for you that you are able to turn things around mentally from negative to positive. That's very important here and you are very right. You must try as long as you want it to work so that you know you have gone the extra mile. Give her time, maybe she is tired, looking for something that doesn't exist, etc. She just wants to escape, love her and let her have it if you can. Keep being the person you are - she fell in love with you a long time ago, she cares, she has stayed, she is depressed, always a sign that one is off track, she has to find her track again. People often find that they let M change them instead of looking for compromises that will allow everyone to maintain a part of themselves and still pursue what they want.
You are doing well my friend. Hang in there like you do. I will be here to support you.
