But this week I am filled with hope and I feel that either way (whether my H comes back or not), I will be OK. My C asked me if I still love my H. Yes, I do. I prefer to think that he is lost, that he is depressed and low and is out seeking SOMETHING to bring back happiness. He is doing it in a VERY destructive way. But it is outside of my control.
I'm so glad you are having a great attitude. I do think to a great extent it's out of our control b/c I think many of our WAS are addicts in some way. My H is addicted to the OW and I have learned to accept that. It's not about me at all, just like if he was addicted to alcohol it has more to do with him than me. Karen
