being single demands a certain amount of introspection...making it easier to live with OW.
I think you have hit on exactly what H meant last Nov when I asked him how he could be living with someone already and he said "Everything was all f**ked up and I don't want to talk about it." He had initially moved into a small furnished condo while we waited for the house to close. I guess he couldn't handle his thoughts when he got into bed alone at night. Coward.
