Still here......

[Belle]

Here's the scoop:

I did talk to H, told him I wanted to talk this week - maybe tomorrow night. Of course he asked 3 times what I wanted to talk about and I told him "just some things" and after the 3rd time I said "If I wanted to talk about it on the phone, I would" To which he said Ok.

Now on to what to say-

I want to start with something like, "It's been 8 months since we split up and I have given you your space. You told me that you would be clearing your head. I now know that you are having an intimate relationship with OW and I don't feel that this has anything to do with clearing your head. It doesn't matter how I know, I just know. I have been trying to give you the benefit of the doubt, and giving you your space. I no longer see your actions as honorable, I see them as unacceptable as a married man. I am finished being your friend, because even friends don't disrespect each other like that. Don't call me anymore, don't ask to see our dog, etc. I am finished enabling your actions."

Anyone have any advice???? Am I missing something? I want to say something like, "you need to file," or "as much as you would like, we are not going to live like this forever"....

Any thoughts would be great.