Well, we got 6.5 inches of snow. My power went out Sunday night - I managed to sleep warm with the dogs but by yesterday afternoon I'd had enough. I put the dogs in the kennel and spent the night with a girlfriend. Today I came home to many fallen tree branches and one cedar tree down against the back of the house. I had to throw all the food in the refigerator out and re-stock.

And he didn't even bother to call to see if I was alright. Wednesday is the day he usually comes by when I'm at work to check on the aquarium. It's a saltwater one and due to the lost power I'm not sure if the fish are still alive or not. They must be hiding. The water still feels chilly to the touch.
And I care because why? Not really sure - just hate to see living creatures suffer.

I guess I'll hire someone to clean up the trees. I want to make sure H sees the mess first. You bet I'll bring this up at mediation. I'm even thinking about telling him I want 100% of the house now - we had talked once about a 60/40 split if we sell it. But at the risk of sounding like a 14 year old - I'M SO OVER IT.


Me 56
H 47
Married 21 years
No children
Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself".
Ow Bomb 8/07
H filed 6/08
D final 2/05/10