I am far from one of the sages around here. But here goes:
1. Keep doing what you're doing. She will let you know when she is ready for more. 2. Don't pursue. 3. Be positive, not needy. 4. Be strong, it's attractive. 5. Work on yourself.
I will end with this. Be prepared for things to not go your way. I am not in any way trying to rain on your parade. Just wait and see what she does and don't put too much stock in what she is saying other than to validate her.
It is possible she just wants you out of the house to get rid of the pressure. What she does will tell you the truth.
I tell you this because it helps to get off the roller coaster and being separated is hard. You will want to connect with her badly now. Stay your course you are doing great.
I'm sure others will have different view points but wanted to get you a response.
V
***Getting up every day and learning to breathe in a new me. For me and my children***
Me: 43 W: 38 SD-15 S(s): 12,9,7 Separated-2/14/2009 My sitch