Hey Peacetoday,
I'd have to agree with the prior posts. Why not get him more completely out of your life, via the house and the business, with one of you buying out the other. It is tempting to not fully let go of the rope so to speak via these attachments, but believe me, coparenting the kids will be plenty of continued contact. In most cases, thats far more than enough....

He's proven unreliable on this key issue of M. Why would he be any different in your business efforts?

Hope you and the kids are doing well.

Like you described, I waited ~ 1 year to date following the S/D and it still feels like it was a wise decision on my part. There's some much in the air right afterward.

Take care,

FL


God heals the broken-hearted (Psalm 147:3)

Me: 44
W: 40
Separated 8/2011

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