Naej - sorry to hear about your fall. Have you tried arnica, it does wonders for bruising!
Yes cream and tablets I am a great believer in it too. Thank you for your concern. At least I can keep them hidden whilst they go every colour of the rainbow.
I hope you're having a good week. Mine is going nicely. I haven't told H about the D papers yet, but he did send me a text on Monday to say that he'd found the birthday card very funny and was looking forward to Thursday evening. I replied briefly and friendly-ly. That makes me want to tell him on Thursday a bit less so I might leave it till Monday/next week instead.
Maria- today my CEO and I spent some time looking for houses on the internet. He found this one: House and we're going to see it together tomorrow (I was a little surprised- one minute it was beaking on the internet, the next he was on the phone to the Estate Agent (Realtor?)). I told him that if he buys it I'll have to move in with him (followed by a discussion started by him saying 'don't you like my [current] house then?). I hope you can see the pictures- it's really a very beautiful house. So exciting!!
OH MY GOD.. theres me looking at the pictures, thinking, yeah, wow, nice houuse, gosh the 3rd bedrooms a good size and then.. OH MY GOD.. 3 MILLION !!?????? 3... Million?
Lisa.. when you moving in, its lovely, he's lovely, he's been thrown at you by the universe and so far you keep hauling your nets back in !! And what was the sitch with working for him now for another 6 months !? You guys must be getting pretty close though, if he has asked yuo to go house hunting with him! But your invovlement with his is still platonic though???
Nice to 'see you' here ! I think it was best to not hit H with the D papers before your dinner, or at dinner, might ruin the evening hey! Funny he texted you to say he is looking forward to Thursday.. he's dating someone !!!!!? But I checked and it was his birthday yesterday then, do you know what he did for it?
Wow what a house! I rented from Foxtons though and I think it's a really sketchy company...oh well buying, no less spending 3M probably gets you better service!
Can't wait to hear about it.
I read along, just don't spend so much time on the boards these days, but I am really glad to hear that you are doing well Lisa!
ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
ITH- agree Foxtons are a bit dodgy, but hopefully not so bad when they stand to get such a big commission. I'll let you know! I'm glad you're doing well too- so pleased about the way things are going with your H.
Al- I'm not sure what H did on Monday. He went home to his parents house at the weekend (I presume with the aubergine, but didn't ask). His Mum took him shopping on Saturday, but he was really dreading it.
I'm glad you like the house (if not the price tag!) Maybe if I do move in we can have a big party there. He did say after making the appointment "we can have great parties there" so I guess it's a given.
He is lovely... but I'm not hauling my nets back in He gets pursued by women ALL the time, so I'm differentiating myself by letting him chase me and being interesting. It is still platonic though, by which I mean no kissing etc, except that it's definitely not platonic in the sense that it's not like any friendship with a guy I've ever had. I think he needs to see me as a valuable asset, or a prize, rather than something anyone could have. And then he'll let me have parties and babies in the big and gorgeous house. Mwahahahahaha!
OMG Lisa!!! Georgeous house!!! The 3 MILLION price tag is a bit steep for me (ok, $100k is steep for me now!) but in London it's to be expected I guess for a place like that.
You are so fab! How did Thursday go then?
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
Glad to hear you sounding so good. So grounded. Did you mention the papers to your H yet?
That house is STUNNING! I can totally picture you living and loving there (I'm only picturing the loving in the 'being adored' way... not the wanton sex goddess way.. I'll let the guys think of you in the latter)...
And BIG CONGRATULATIONS on the job extension!!! Wonderful news!!!!!