Hi 2BA, I think I read you're 27 and you have two girls? How long were you two together before you got married? Sounds like you might be high school sweethearts? Do you know how many people he's told he wants out? One of my big problems that scared the crap out of me (still does) is how many people my H told that were separated and that he wanted a divorce. I know he has since shut his mouth but that was a really scary for me. I understand the ML. We have done that a few times when this all started and have recently had a couple of encounters but I've set a new boundary that doesn't include that for now. But I agree, it does make me feel closer to him. How old are your girls and how are they taking this? Is moving out an option for him? Can you afford two households? Or does he have someone he could stay with for free?
