Just stop all the filings all the charges and whatever else. You go out there, Get A Life. Do things for you and for your kids. Then Act As If. Act as if all is well and this is just a bump in the road you both needed to hit so you can get your marriage back on track. It will make her crazy and curious at the same time.
How do u act As If when you feel like your insides are in a knot, and when you think you have gotten past a point, but then you backtrack, and feel like you're back at square one. Like 3 wks of work, of DBing takes you 2 steps Fw, but 1 nite can knock you 10 steps back. KWIM??
M:28 H:30 DD-9| DD-7| Baby- Due 11/10 T-14 | M-8
10/08- Bomb 4/09- Failed attempt at Marriage Fitness Program 3/10- WH moved out. 7/10- Informed me he's filing in Aug