You are right about that, you have to be "friends" to see each other's pages. I'm just not ready. I don't have the restraint you do to not look and I would want to first thing in the morning to see what his status is, what his mood is, who posted on his page, what they posted, etc. It's just too much for my little heart right now. But I read in a book recommended by my DB coach, men are not able to multi task like we can so we are the ones who end up doing all of that stuff for them and us and everyone really. What did he say to your Cheer Up text?