The Flames are Still Rising....

[blindsided1]

It was great. So, interesting night, last night. About 2 weeks ago, H got a new phone number on OW's cell account. Wasn't going to tell me and was going to keep his old number (from our joint account). So, last week I transferred the his old number to one of my old phones and forwarded it to my current phone. I told him I was going to do this. I get calls from his creditors and just give them the new phone number to call him on. Last Saturday, I got a call at 3:30am...I answer...hang up. I get a call at 5:30am...I answer...hang up. H tells me on Sunday that he wants me to forward his calls from his old number to his new number because "people" might still call him on his old phone. I say...okay (knowing I won't do it). Or, he suggests, I can just cancel the number. I said, "no, I'm going to keep it". So, last night I get a call from a unfamiliar number. I let it go to vm. They call back. I answer. Some man starts talking to me about "I thought you were going to transfer..." I said "who is this? H?" He says yes and sounds drunk. I ask him if he's been drinking. He says no. He gets all upset because his calls aren't being forwarded to his new phone....because potential employers might call the number and when they hear a woman's voice they won't leave a message...it's just unprofessional...blah blah blah. This doesn't jive because he asked me to cancel the number before. So, I know he is getting calls on his old number from people (women?) he doesn't want me to know about. Who's he afraid will call? And, why would a potential employer call at 11:30 at night? So, I get off the phone. Go to bed and he calls AGAIN at 12:45am. I don't answer. He leaves no vm.

He's on the prowl .... I can feel it in my bones.