you will have setbacks, we all do, realize that we're not perfect and we will fall from time to time.

The problem isn't in falling, the problem is when people don't want to get back up after they fall.

That separates the winners from the losers.

So don't worry if you screw up along the way, if you trip up and say & do something stupid that you think kills your chances with your wife. Just get back up on the horse and continue pressing forward.