Actually she winds up saying this only once or twice a week (which I know is too much).
Um...YES. That is waaaaaaayyyy too much. Try to figure out what leads to that and put an end to it. Twice a month is still too much.
I know you have said you are using these forums to vent, but at some point I would like to see your attitude becoming more positive that it actually starts showing here and you don't need to vent as much since you are doing better. Trust me, until you actually are recovering emotionally, she can sense it.
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A