ACJ,

I feel differently to this than View does....If I may...

I think, and I thought that last time too, with your son, you should set your kids free, let them make their own choices here. NOt because they make the right choices, but because they need to have the space to MAKE those choices, or it will come back to haunt you one day and then it may hit much harder than it is hitting you now !

I can only imagine how horrible and hard this all is for you, and I know it must be the hardest thing you've had to do even... but you can do this !!!!

DB your kids ! xxx


Love Cinders xxx

"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus

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