Well, I've stopped hiding at the bus stop waiting for him to come home so I can walk in after him LOL. I'm sure the couple who live across from the stop are quite relieved.
He came in all animated going on about green beans he had bought for dinner. He then went on to talk about his old work, all the gossip etc. Think he is having trouble letting go of it. Anyway, he was just like old self and we were chatted in kitchen when he walked away. I just came here to my bedroom.
I'm ok about it. It's very tense and awkward being in his company right now. Plus, still not asked how my day was or how I am.
I think I knew I liked you for a reason. I too believe in spiritalist mediums. I had a reading years and years ago that was too dead on about things to make me dare to believe otherwise. Do I think there are phonies, yes many but if you can find one who isn't, you are in for a whole bunch of stuff that is just wonderful.
Just remember there is still free will AND as you change and he changes, the outcome may change. But that is not a bad thing. It also doesn't mean don't do the work. We all still have to do the work. So pray for you, pray for H, pray for your M. They do get heard. God works in His time not ours.
Maybe since you are interested in spiritualism you should occupy some of your time learning more about it. Metaphysics on the whole. Very interesting and very enlightening. The church I attend is actually a spiritualist one. I get a lot out of the meditations and healings myself. And I've met a whole new circle of people that are just incredible.
If you focus on the past, you ruin the future. You can only live for today.
You'll all think me crazy but a friend of a friend is a spiritualist medium and she just gave me a reading.
I've been dying to go to one, my friend has found a really good lady, but I'm afraid of waht she will tell me. What if it's something I don't want to hear?
You're very brave. I think I'm going on 3/28, when my H is out of town, and I send the kids to grandmas. Good luck with your wish.
M:28 H:30 DD-9| DD-7| Baby- Due 11/10 T-14 | M-8
10/08- Bomb 4/09- Failed attempt at Marriage Fitness Program 3/10- WH moved out. 7/10- Informed me he's filing in Aug
Maybe since you are interested in spiritualism you should occupy some of your time learning more about it. Metaphysics on the whole. Very interesting and very enlightening. The church I attend is actually a spiritualist one. I get a lot out of the meditations and healings myself. And I've met a whole new circle of people that are just incredible.
Thank you, so nice. I might go along to one on Sunday. Make me feel bit better.
Well, think I'll kick start the day with a half hour self flogging then treat myself to a leg shave.
Then Later tonight, I'm going to venture outside to see shopaholic with a friend.
I've been dying to go to one, my friend has found a really good lady, but I'm afraid of waht she will tell me. What if it's something I don't want to hear?
You're very brave. I think I'm going on 3/28, when my H is out of town, and I send the kids to grandmas. Good luck with your wish.
Hi there, not sure what I will wish for. Going to think hard about it.
I know what you mean about not wanting to hear anything bad, I was a the stage I just wanted to know something.
Ok, reading DR. Now I asked Husband earlier in week if he wanted to chat about our R we haven't been able to do that as he said he is confused, he said we would chat then go to cinema. Still didn't get much from counselling.
Anyway, I just asked him if he still wanted to go out he said yes but changed it from cinema to dinner.
In the book it says ask for what you want. Now he is still very withdrawn re r so should I just stay away from relationship and concentrate on enjoying company?
Yes I would NOT have R talk. It is actually probably rule # 1.
When R gets talked about, unless you are both in total agreement, which you aren't, it will usually not turn out well. You are in C so I would wait until then because sometimes an impartial person will help "translate". Eventually, R talk will come when he is ready. If you push it, he will either be mean, say what he thinks you want to hear, or run. It is a form of pursuing.
If you focus on the past, you ruin the future. You can only live for today.
R-validate, listen, try not to take anything personally. Then later you can think about what he says. Sometimes our emotions get in the way of us hearing what is really being said. That is one of the reasons R talks should be avoided. Like I said eventually there will have to be a few but this is not the time for that.
If you focus on the past, you ruin the future. You can only live for today.
