You'll all MUST move on.

I will repost...that the key is to let go. In so doing, all the pursuit, begging, etc...goes away. My W had doubts about D last year...after I filed, etc. She saw me moving away.

I can guarantee both of you that anything short of being a leader, strong and letting her follow what she thinks is right...is going to totally fail. YOU CANNOT TALK...EXPLAIN...REASON THEM BACK.

Trust me...it's the proverbial carrot on the stick.

Grieve it and let go. Move forward. Get busy living or get busy dying. If you do so, your W may just see what she is going to lose. She won't miss a wuss..but she will miss a man.

Hang in.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;