I know you are WDID. And you'll never know how much I appreciate it. Everyone else too!
Anniversary dinner was nice. Spent a couple hours at the restaurant having some really nice conversation. W was really engaged most of the night. I thanked her for dinner and she thanked me for the trip (there's a shocker!). Went home and had a really nice evening. Caught her staring at me a number of times when we were watching T.V. Not sure if that's good or bad, but whatever.
One interesting thing for anyone who wonders just how messed up someone can be when they're in the middle of an A. I know I'm not telling anyone here anything, but when W and I were discussing the trip, I told her I thought I would ask for a room in the same area of the resort we're staying at as we stayed at last time we used this resort. W replied "we've never stayed there". I said, "Yes we have" and she said "When, I don't remember staying there". I told her it was at Thanksgiving in 2007. She still didn't remember. I said, "our balcony overlooked the swimming pool and we were just down the walk from the restaurant at the resort". She looked at me with a puzzled look. I continued "there was a shelter house with a grill next to the pool". Still nothing. "You stayed at the pool (so she could call OM without us around) the one day while I took the boys to the Magic Kingdom and then you met us to go to the Hoop de Doo review", still nothing. Side note, if you ever go to Disney and want to see a good show, go to the Hoop de Doo. It's a blast.
Anyway, I just kind of gave up on the conversation because she still couldn't remember being there. Mind you, this was only a year and a half ago and she remembers things about Disney from when the kids were 2 years old, but she can't remember staying at this fantastic resort only a year and a half ago? Wonder why? Oh yeah, she was totally deep in her A and I'd exposed to OMW just 10 days before and she was alternating between WD/Anger/calling OM to try to keep the A going.
Amazing, simply amazing.
Talk to everyone soon.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.