W left this morning for a three day business trip. On the plus side it will be nice to have less tension in the house for the next three days. Even though she is working very actively to move out, looking at buying her own place or just renting, I need to figure out how to reduce the stress and tension that is hovering over us. It is hard for me to see someone that I love feel so uptight around me - for what seems no real reason at all. I do not bring up any R talk, I don't hover over her, plead, beg or anything like that. I try to just hang back and let her dictate what interaction we have if any. I am trying to act "as if" but it doesn't seem to make much of a difference in how she feels. I don't know, I guess I just seem lost.
