Do you agree? Does she look down on people? Does she want more? Does she want more and not deserve it? Also remember this: Your family loves YOU first. They don't want to see you get hurt and they think getting rid of her will stop you from getting hurt. That may or may not be true. What's more, they don't have to live with the consequences. You do. If you keep the charges, and you get divorced, are you prepared to live with the outcome? I don't think you are. I think you are right, ABSOLUTELY right to want to create a new relationship with your wife.