Well, she'll get over it. Once you drop the charges all of that changes and she'll have to put on her big girl panties and deal. But, she does still love you. You guys just got really ugly with each other. She had you arrested and escorted out of the house because she needed you to be mad at her so she could justify the wrong she was doing. Don't let her have that weapon. Don't give her reasons or the ability to say "He always fights with me....he's so mean....he's such a jerk.....he's ending my career....blah blah blah." You can take that from her, so do it. Give her nice and wonderful only. Start to chip away at the bad feelings. Let her know the bridges home are not burned or destroyed.
