Being content for now.

[kissak]

WEll this girl I am speaking of lives here and is in the EMS with him and he has known her for a while, actually I always suspected he had something going with her years ago. So she isnt someone I would want to see him with.

Yes, he did try the dating sites, but I think after the scam that was pulled on him with that, he isnt into the dating sites anymore. I think he felt kinda stupid after that.

Actually he shouldnt be going out at all.

Cinders, be careful with those sites, I have tried them as well and there are alot of weirdos on them! My H included! lol

He did text me a little while ago and because I didnt answer, he called me at work. Wanted to know if I got them. I told him I was busy talking with someone. He quietly and strangely said "oh you talking to your buddy?"....meaning this guy I have gone out with once or twice. I just kinda laughed under my breath and debated on what to say....then I told him I was actually talking to an insurance man. Figured it was something i was gonna have to look into pretty soon. His reply was "I dont know". Ok that threw me off a little, but then he said "well you have at least a year at minimum". Meaning I would be able to keep my health/dental ins for at least the rest of the year no matter what.

I hope that it did show him that I am moving forward with things and working on taking care of myself.

But, I felt a little bit of undecisiveness still in his words.

Just wait till he sees me on Friday when he picks up the kids. Im gonna be looking so good and ready to go out, he will just be a wreak all night! lol.

[stillloveshim]

GOOD FOR YOU!!!! What are you planning to do on Friday night? And what are you going to say if he asks you, since we know he's going to ask you?
And he did take that as you moving on....he said you have at least one more year of insurance coverage which he doesn't have to mention. He's floundering, wondering about you and what you're doing.

[kissak]

I know! He is wondering and your right, he will ask! Even better he will ask again Saturday morning if I had a good time! Im just gonna tell him Im going out with someone, which I am....probably just my sister, but I am going out. But Im gonna just tell him that Im gonna go out and Id rather him not ask me anything else.

Its my life and I dont have to tell him anything!!

[stillloveshim]

That sounds like a good plan. Give him the Hee-bee Gee-bees! But be nice and soft....just like you know this guy is in love with you and you don't want to hurt his feelings now that you're moving on!
Oh, oh, oh and rumple up the bed, like two people were sleeping there!!!
No, don't do that, that might cause too many problems. He might try to "one up ya" and who needs that?
Here's something a friend told me: "I know you love him, but you're probably the only woman who does. Don't freak out if you think he's dating someone or hanging out with someone. Think of how many guy friends you have that mean nothing to you, except they're really just a friend."
He may not be dating or hanging out with any of these women, but is doing his best to make you think he is. Don't let your imagination run away.

[kissak]

Good Point, very good. You are right, he does have lots of friends that are female and i think he really likes to see me get jealous over them.

lol, if I messed my bed up he would think nothing of that anyway!

I think what your friend said was right. And my H knows I love him and always tells me he doesnt have a clue why I do. He thinks that I should hate him.

Good thing though is the guy he thinks Im interested in, he told me once he didnt want me going out with him. He use to work with him and didnt like him very much. Probably because this guy use to pull pranks on him all the time. lol....I think its so funny.

Im tired of being careful of what he thinks.

[kissak]

I hate to admit it, but I do put comments on my space page that make my H wonder. He looks at it quite often. I know because sometimes he asks me what it means or will casually mention it. He is still so curious which I just dont get. Just move on if you dont want to be with me!

[kissak]

HEY MAYA44! glad to hear from ya!! HOpe your doing well!

You know what is so funny, today i have put on my spac, that my mood is 'smiling' and my status is that im having a much better day now!

Ok, now my H is texting me wanting to know if im having a good day, and why is my day so good now, and whats the reason????

I think he is being nosey again. lol

What is he up to now....maybe I should tell him i had a guy come in the shop and told me how dumb my h was for leaving me!! That has happened before!! lol

He is floundering and wondering....good.

[stillloveshim]

ohhh, I killed my Facebook page because my H was messing with my head which made me mess with his head....it just got ugly and frankly, hate to admit it, he was winning that battle so I ended the war. BUT I did get some really great pictures of me taken, so I may have to return to Facebook with a real bang.
Things with my H are getting better, which I'm being very tentative and cautious. We'll see.
I think for the MySpace, you should find songs that you like that describe your situation and use lyrics from it. That's what my H would do and it was so confusing. Today, my friend told me his Facebook status is a line from a Rascal Flatts song about being so stupid, looking for love when all along it was right "Here" in front of me. The song is actually called Here. How big is the town you live in? I get the impression, not so big.

[kissak]

I live in a town where everybody knows everybody. Actually the whole county knows everybody.

My H is in a crappy mood today, still keeps asking me why Im so happy today. Then decided to text "i hope you keep having a happy day" He is in a bad mood for some reason. Oh well, his mood, not mine.

[Cinderellaman]

mmmmmmmm I still feel that Facebook and MySpace are no good...sorry just my opinion of course, but nothing good seems to come of it....