PortlandDad, I am so sorry that you are faced with this latest discovery. I wonder if your W knew what statutory rape was at the time. She seems lacking in morals. In her current crazy state, dont let her drag you and the kids down with her.
I too have looked back on my marriage and wondered whether my XW married me just to get a green card. I know that she would not have had children with me if that was the case.