I read your last post. I don't think I'm doing a very good job communicating here -- surprise!
What did I do? As I put in my first post, I blew off her requests that we go to counseling. I assumed that, if I ignored it, it would go away. Well, I was almost right -- I ignored it and SHE went away.
She doesn't want to leave to have sex. All she was trying to say was that, at this point in time, she's not interested in another "relationship" -- marital or otherwise -- but is open to just being a sexual person.
She maintains that this issue is a RESULT of her decision and my distance in the past year, not the CAUSE of the decision -- and knowing her I'm willing to believe that's true (though I am scared that it's not, but that's another hangup).
She wants to leave because "I am done." There's "nothing left." She is "empty inside." She waited and waited and agonized and suffered (like the WAW on the WAW support board) and finally was pushed over the line but a snotty e-mail I sent. The straw that broke the camel's back. And once she committed to the decision, she was happy.
And that's where we're at.
First C session in less than 5 hours. We'll see. We'll see.
