Oh believe me I have that in my mind all the time. I am slowly learning to take care of myself better and try to put myself up in the top two once and a while!
Ex sent an email today saying so and so was getting married(our best man) and that was why he needed me to watch the kids. I said big difference between being a key note speaker and a wedding. Told him to try the truth next time. He came back with try listening. How soon they forget, he always teased me about having a memory like an elephant and now he tries to say he told me something different. Loser bird!!
Then he was trying to take some time out of the kids Spring break to "make up" for the 14th. I suggested that he take the girls this Saturday for a while(D10 has a birthday party to go to and that would give D8 one on one Daddy time). He seems fine with that and I won't bring up the spending the night on Spring Break. Just another week of dealing with him and his craziness!!
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory