W - "No, I keep thinking that if something was going to change, it would have by now. I can't deny my feelings, I just don't have those feelings for you any more, and I don't think I ever will"
I actually got the same thing from my wife Sat nite. Ironically just 2 nite earlier (Thurs nite) we were intimate for the first time since she dropped the bomb (we were almost intimate about 1.5 weeks after she dropped the bomb, but she freaked out about how it didn't feel right so we stopped).
She said she feels that if she hadn't found a reason in 8 weeks to change her mind, there isn't one. So now she's trying to figure out how to move forward with the separation instead. Very sad.
I don't know how to move forward/continue either. So I feel for you
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13
