It was me. I did pay the bills, plan vacations, make the schedules, do the shopping. I know he depends on alot of things from me still. Quite often he still says "just remind me". Although he is doing quite alot for himself now, I still find him having no idea what to do. Its was only recently he took it on himself to take the kids to the park without me recommending it.
Ok, who is around to remind me? Nobody (thats why i forget sometimes, lol)
Maybe that is the kind of security he wants from me. Honestly all he did in the marriage was things that he needed to do for himself. Other things I had to plan.
Good point.
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10