So what I'm confronted with is this: If I was a real man, who wanted her to be happy, I would (a) let her go now and (b) maintain a good relationship with her afterwards to make things easier on the kids.
You're not stopping her from doing anything, it seems she wants you to be the bad guy. If she wants to file she can she doesn't need your permission, tell her that.
I know my wife when she wanted to file she wanted us to sit with the kids and tell them this was OUR decision. I said noway I'll be there and support you but this is NOT our decision and I won't lie, and a C we went to for the kids agreed with me.
My wife said the same things about being friends I told I don't see that happening friendly yes friends no.
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."
